Is that pony bodywork convention coming up next month alluring you? Or maybe you are thinking about attending a tack fitting clinic? Or maybe you are thinking of an animal communication workshop?
Well, you are on the right track. And here is the rider: beware!
Believe it or not, your pony knows when you have picked up some new thing that may better the standard of your horse’s life. Your pony knows precisely what it is that you have just learned. Earlier, your pony may have been very reasonable of that ill-fitting saddle you kept torturing him with, but now, after the tack fitting clinic, he’s going to attempt to throw you off if you keep persisting with that saddle.
Your swaybacked mare, who used to trot down to you when you entered her pasture, will now kick up her heels and take off the other way, that is, if you’re not planning on doing bodywork right then.
And what price your show pony who dislikes his job but still excels at it? He’s aware you attended an animal communication workshop and he is aware you are paying little attention to his wish for a change of career. He is now waiting to teach you a lesson at the next horse show.
Is This All Some Kind of Joke?
It is not, believe me. It is regrettable that so many pony owners have had to learn the tough way that their horses are telepathic. Your horse just knows what you know. So long as you were ignorant, he was content to endure you, but the instant you learned something new that would improve his life, he’s on to you, and he is expecting you to utilise your new talent to his benefit. And that’s starting right now, without any further loss of time!
Be warned: just finding out about new aspects of beneficial things like better horse medical care, better horse feed and better horse management marks you out! Once you’ve traveled down that road, there’s no coming back; it is a one-way street. Your pony will make damn sure of it! I have come across repeated instances of folks that convey something to their animals and then omitting to actually do what they exclaimed they would. They are facing the consequences: it may be the dog relieving himself on your carpet and letting you know where you get off, or it may be your horse bucking you into orbit. If you neglect your animals, they are not going to excuse you.
I have had repeated occasion to have my inabilities set straight by my horses. I remember Marka, my first big-time jumper horse, used to be very easy-going and totally safe to ride when I first got him. We were ideal partners, winning all kinds of shows and championships around. I was definite Marka and I had the ideal chemistry. In fact Marka was a cribber, and that usually played havoc with his teeth, spine, and performance. I believed cribbing was bad, and tried everything I could to bring a cap on his cribbing. Nothing I tried worked. That horse continued to crib, but he never had any antagonism that I kept attempting to get him to stop.
Then I had a brainwave. I tried to reach out to him, to really speak to him. I asked him just what could actually be done to stop him from cribbing. His response was right on the spot: “Do I ask you to give up eating?” Reading closely, he was telling me that cribbing was as much part of him as his eyes, his ears and his legs.
Despite this, I did not give up on trying hard to get him to quit cribbing. It became plain immediately that he was no longer indulgent. He started showing me his butt whenever I went to catch him, and constantly damaged some part of his stall or some object there. His strongest sign of bitterness, though, was his new-found refusal to jump at the shows. He resisted all the attempts of my coach and I to make him perform in the right way. He refused to do so even on courses he used to have a liking for.
We went back for another session with the animal communicator. Marka was extremely unequivocal: “You want me to perform at the shows, let me crib.” Well, that was it “he had issued his final warning in a manner that was unmistakable. We made a decision to let him crib without any more complaint, and was that a good thing. He started performing well again and even more important, he started loving it again.
Marka is no longer with me. He now belongs to my former coach. I’m told Marka has his very own cribbing tree and he even has his own gang of cribbing mates. It is rather a lovable gang of equine cribbers! They take turns cribbing. Marka sets the ball rolling, then turns to one of his pals and asserts, “You’re on dude, go ahead!” when the pal is done with his cribbing, both turn to a third pal and tell him to get on with it. When each pony has had his turn, it’s back to Marka again. He is on one. Gigantic cribbing splurge nowadays. He is routinely used to take beginner adults and children through 3 foot courses. He has absolutely no issues with the world so long as it doesn’t interfere with his cribbing. His teeth may suck nonetheless it is worth it for him!
My experience with almost all of my horses “in particular my mustangs “has been pretty much the same. So long as you are an ignoramus, they are reasonable and forgiving. As quickly as you lose the blissfulness of ignorance, they stop forgetting and forgiving. They have memories that will challenge those of elephants. But they’re constant to you if you’re understanding with them. When you give them what they desire, they try to give you what you want: better rides, better performances.
I have attempted to pass on a friendly warning through this article to all horse lovers. Learn all of the subtleties of proper pony medicare. Learn also to reach a compromise with your horse: they like a scratch-my-back-and-I’ll-scratch yours arrangement. Don’t pay the penalty for being inflexible.
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